Networking is one of the most effective forms of marketing, especially when you run your own business.  Even with the explosion of sites such as Facebook and LinkedIn, nothing quite beats being able to get in front of “real” people, shaking them by the hand and having a face-to-face conversation.

But, let’s be honest here.  The big downside of networking is time.  There are only so many hours in a working week and, although it is very easy to attend networking events from breakfast right through to evening drinks, it doesn’t allow you, the business owner, much time to manage your day-to-day business.

One of the best definitions of successful networking I have come across is “being talked about when you’re not in the room.”

So if this creates an opportunity to use the power of networking without physically networking,, how can you come up in these conversations?

The secret to this is in what you offer.

Getting yourself talked about is not about defining yourself with a job title but helping others clearly understand how you may benefit specific people.  And the clearer and more specific you are in what problems you there to solve, the easier it is for people to bring you up in conversation.

That’s right – I’m talking niches here!

Let me give you an example:  Coaching.

You can’t go to a networking event without bumping in to at least 2 or 3 coaches in the room, can you?  And what do they all tell you what it is they do?  Yup, that’s right – coaching.

But what makes them stand out from each other?  Not an awful lot, to be honest.

Now, don’t get me wrong.  I am sure that a lot of coaches are lovely people!  And yes, some of them say they are career coaches, business coaches or help people with their work/life balance.

But come one – how many coaches have you met in the last few weeks who stand out enough for you to have specifically talked about them to someone else?

Let me ask you another question.  Of the people you have met over the last few weeks, who have you talked about to other people?  And let’s go one stage further.  Who have you talked about to someone else, only to find that 2 other people also know their name?

How powerful is that?  Instant social proof that this person must be someone to be contacted if not just one person mentions them, but 2 others do as well.

More often than not, the real reason behind you remembering this person is because they were “niche” enough for you trigger a “oh, really – that’s interesting”.

They were “niche” enough for you to check them out on LinkedIn or have a read of their blog when you were back in your office.  Perhaps they were even “niche” enough for you to sign up for their newsletter or follow them on Twitter.

Telling people what you do is not enough to get you remembered.  And being “niche” enough is not just about targeting a particular client type.

Being “niche” enough is about being able to clearly define yourself in terms of what problems you solve and the results that your clients achieve.  The more specific and niche you are in the results you create, the easier it is for someone to “get you”.  And thus talk about you.

And remember, it’s not just about the conversations that happen in networking events.  The share-ability of social media makes you being talked about online even more powerful.  Someone’s comments about you become evergreen, staying right there for others to read and share too.

So stop telling people about what it is you “do”.  And start getting clearer on your “niche” so that others remember the problems you solve and the results you create.

Got a comment to make? I’d love to read your thoughts and ideas

When you go looking for something on the web, the first place you probably go to is good old Google.  Whether you want to find an answer to a burning question, a local website designer or the best cleaning product for that red wine stain on your carpet, Google tends to be the first point of call.

But have you ever used Twitter search?

Whether you use twitter or not, there is no doubt that Twitter is being used by millions of people across the world today tweeting about everything from what they had for lunch today to what their latest business tip are.

Those 140 character text-like webpages are being published by their thousands, every second of every day, giving anyone who wants to know the very latest thoughts, links and ideas of every conceivable topic you could think of.

But what does that mean to you?  How does all this information have an impact on you and your business?

What all this information means is an up to the second account of what is being said about, gossipped about, moaned about and raved about the very topic of what you are basing your business on. 

Let me give you an example:  A nutritional therapist specialises in helping people eat more healthily so they can lose weight and feel slimmer.  This person wants to put together a group coaching programme to help ladies get in to shape before their summer holidays [yup, you know what I mean don't you, ladies - that thought of getting in to a bikini can send shudders down your spine, can't it!!]. But before the programme gets put together and launched, the nutritional therapist needs to do a bit of market research to make sure the right content is included and there are potential clients who would buy this programme.

One easy and simple way of finding out what people are talking about right here and now is to go to http://search.twitter.com/ and type in a key word or key phrase relating to what you want to find more about. 

For this particular nutritional therapist, they could try a range of phrases such as “fat day” or “lose weight + holiday” [you can see the results for this phrase here: http://search.twitter.com/search?q=lose+weight+%2B+holiday ]

So, don’t just rely on Google for the latest search results – especially as Google only shows what has been indexed by Google, rather than what is actually published on the internet – check out what people are tweeting about.

A popular mistake small business owners make, is the dreaded “must work with anyone and everyone” attitude.

And coaches are particularly notorious for this!

When you are in the early stages of starting up your own business and your diary is empty, it is easy to fall in to this trap. I know I did when I first started up as a Life Coach back in 2004.  There I was, a newly accredited life coach believing the world was my oyster and thinking that my coaching skills could work on anyone. 

And I wasn’t wrong with this assumption.  Anyone who has been coached or is involved with coaching will be sure to agree.  But when it comes to business and marketing, this approach is the kiss of death. 

Believing that you are there to help anyone and everyone who could do with your services is just like standing on the street corner of your local high street.  Every person from every walk of life could pass you by and you merrily hand out your business cards and beautifully designed leaflets to them all. 

But how many people will stop and read what you have shoved in to their hands?  How many will glance down and plan to read it later [but never do]?  And how many will just drop in to the next litter bin that they pass on by?

If you were to do this to a thousand people, the chances are that maybe – just maybe – one person may be interested in what you have to offer.  And to spend the time and money attracting that one person is frankly hard work.  I know I would rather run the London Marathon wearing a ridiculous charity costume [and probably cross the finish line quicker!]

So if you are making this mistake of trying to attract anyone and everyone, save yourself months of hard work and hundreds of pounds of printing and make a decision on who exactly you want to work with.  I promise you that your marketing will be far more effective and you will be attracting far more client enquires by only reaching out to a fraction of the global marketplace.