Are you feeling that everything that you do in your business is hard work at the moment?
You wake up in the morning thinking “I’ve got to get some writing done and get my newsletter out” and sigh heavily as you drag your body up and out of bed.
You stand under the shower going over your mental to-do-list, not noticing that your heart beat has started to get a little faster and signs of stress are showing as your shoulders tense up.
You start to get cross with yourself as you make that first cup of tea because you didn’t get half what you meant to do the day before. You even feel guilty because you shouldn’t have crashed out in front of the TV last night and instead should have worked past midnight catching up with your accounts.
There’s a lot to do when you run your own business. And especially so when your diary is quieter than you feel it should be.
If you’re not working with your clients, you are spending your time trying to find new clients. And when you are not trying to find new clients, you are keeping up with your admin and trying to empty your inbox.
OK! Stop already!!
Running your own business is hard work but it shouldn’t be that kind of hard work.
Sounds like you need to put the breaks on and take stock.
You see, when you fill your head full of “should be doing thats” and “got no clients” thoughts, your whole attitude to business changes. Business becomes really hard work.
Do you remember the buzz you had when you first decided to go in to business for yourself? It felt a little scary, no doubt, but you dared yourself and thought “let’s do it!”
Do you remember the passion and inspiration you felt when you worked all the hours you had, in between the day job or the family, but it didn’t matter how little time you had. You always made the time.
You were on fire!
So, if you had this fire once, what has happened to it? Why has the passion gone and the drudgery of ticking off to-do’s taken over your life?
You need to get back to the place where life and work is synchronised. The juggling balls are flying all over the place but they all land in the right place, all of the time.
If you want to get your passion back so that business stops being such hard work, try one of these simple strategies:
1. Success Diary: At the end of each day, write down 2 or 3 positive things that have happened. It may have been an out-of-the-blue call from a potential new client or securing a big contract. It doesn’t matter how big or small it i; start writing down your achievements every day.
2. Read yesterday’s successes: As you start your working day, remind yourself that you are achieving and that good things are happening in your business. Stop beating yourself up on what you haven’t done and start believing that you can make great things happen.
3. Ask for what you want: If you want a new client to call you up, say out loud “a new client is going to call me today”. Smile while you are saying this. Really believe that it can happen. And call me when it does! I love it when the universe gives out what we ask for
4. Start the day with a thank you: You just can’t start the day in a bad, stressed-out mood when you decide to be thankful for what you have already. I dare you test this out!
5. Remember your passions: Stick to what you love to do. If you hate doing your accounts, there are bookkeepers out there who can do this for you. If you love to stand up in front of an audience, why are you getting stressed about writing new articles and not out finding more speakig opportunities? If you focus your marketing activities on the skills that you love to use, then your marketing will always be a fun and enjoyable part of your week.
I hope that one or more of these suggestions helps you today because I want you to have fun in what you do. And the more fun you have in your working week makes all that hard work much easier to do.
How do you handle the times when business is hard work? Take a second and submit a comment below. Your thoughts and ideas are much appreciated.
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